Buy for the golfer, not the stereotype
The most common mistake in buying a golf gift for a mom is defaulting to a pink version of something and calling it done. A woman who plays golf is a golfer first, with the same opinions about her ball, her glove and her bag as anyone else on the course. Start from how seriously she plays - the same two-minute look in her bag works here - and buy the best version of the thing, not the most gendered one.
The two fit checks that actually matter
Fit is the one place a golfing mom's gift differs from a dad's, and it comes down to two items. A golf glove is cut differently for women and comes in its own size range, so a men's small is not the same thing - check the size on the glove she already wears, and note which hand it goes on. Golf shoes and apparel need a size and, for shoes, a width; unless you can check a pair in her closet, this is the category to skip in favor of something that fits everyone.
Consumables and accessories are the safe ground
Everything that isn't sized is fair game and much of it is excellent. A dozen soft golf balls from a brand she recognizes is the cleanest gift there is - consumable, no size, and a tier she may not splurge on herself. A decent pair of golf sunglasses, a magnetic towel that stays on the cart, or a tumbler set for the drive home are all things used every round and impossible to get wrong on fit.
If she walks, weight is the gift
A mom who carries her own bag around the course will feel every ounce of it, which makes a genuinely light carry bag a thoughtful upgrade - as long as you confirm she walks rather than rides first. Look for two fold-out legs on her current bag; that's the tell. If she rides, put the money into what mounts to the cart instead.
What to avoid
Skip anything that treats her golf as a novelty - the joke gifts that would be fine for a casual player read as faintly dismissive for someone who takes the game seriously. Skip off-brand balls, which she'll spot instantly. And skip clubs and putters, which are fitted to her height and swing and can't be guessed. For a broader spread of women's picks across every budget, the golf gifts for women page covers more ground.